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Comments on: What on earth is an Emo? No Wait, what’s a cutter? http://www.mombiefitness.com/what-on-earth-is-an-emo-no-wait-whats-a-cutter/ Have Fun Getting Healthy and Fit Tue, 22 Dec 2009 02:44:23 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.0.8 By: Ryan http://www.mombiefitness.com/what-on-earth-is-an-emo-no-wait-whats-a-cutter/#comment-128 Tue, 22 Dec 2009 02:44:23 +0000 http://www.realtechmom.com/what-on-earth-is-an-emo-no-wait-whats-a-cutter/#comment-128 I would also like to add…. My cutting was not for attention as most people believe cutters cut for attention that is not always the case. No one in my family even knows. 22 years it has been a secret. My cutting is also not a disorder and most call it. I can controle it some people may not be able to after they have been doing it for a while, but most can controle it. I guess it just bothers me that people who have cut them selves (people also burn them selves so it is not just cutting that is lumped into this catagory) get steriotyped as EMO and suisidal and attention seeking. This in most cases (im shure there are some people out there who do do this to get attention) is just not true and quite offensive. Yes it is a strange thing to do and most people dont understand it but that does not make all of us crazy or suisidal. It just means we are human and we are flawed. *I am in NO WAY ADVOCATING CUTTING! Im just saying how I am and trying to enlighten some parents so that they do not do as my parents did and alinated me and made it worse by trying to beat it out of me. I wish she had just asked me why I do it and why I feet the way I did. Mind you she would have never known had I not ever told her. So if your child confids in you please please be calm and understandign, because that trully is the biggist step and the hardest step for a teenager to take to open up and be that vonerable. It takes alot to be that honest especially when you are terrified to dissapoint the ones you love.

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By: Ryan http://www.mombiefitness.com/what-on-earth-is-an-emo-no-wait-whats-a-cutter/#comment-127 Tue, 22 Dec 2009 02:29:15 +0000 http://www.realtechmom.com/what-on-earth-is-an-emo-no-wait-whats-a-cutter/#comment-127 I have been a cutter since I was a young child, yet I did not know that is what it was called or what I was doing at the time. I have had a abusive life and I will never know how it started just rember being 8 years old and having cut my self with some glass and suddnely I felt much better my emotional pain was gone. Of corse it esculated from there. I still some times do it and Im almost 35. All I can say is people think it is a precurser to suiside but that in my case and in most others is not true at all. I did it because I was in so much pain and I didnt want to do something stupid like drink or do druggs but I needed the pain to stop. I just hope that parents of children like me would talk camly to thair child and ask them why they are doing this to them selves rather than go off the deep end. Some times teenagers just dont know how to handel their emotional baggage and they dont think any one else out there has ever felt the way they do ( beleve me all my life I had felt I was alone in life and I was far to beat down to ever speek about my pain) I guess from all of this I would just hope that kids can know that there are many others out there feeling what you feel and you are never alone u just have to face your fears and talk to some one. I know it sounds dumb comming from an adult and in my teen years I prolly would have thought what I was saying now is stupid and I dont know what Im talking about. Just know that when you grow up things have a funny way of becoming clear. A noat to parents it will get easier it usually takes till the late twentys for kids to start seeing from a difrent prospective, but it will happen and it will get easier. Juse be there for your kid and talk to them with out judging and try to understand what is causing the need to do these things.

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By: My appologies to the Emo and/or Cutter World | Real Tech Mom http://www.mombiefitness.com/what-on-earth-is-an-emo-no-wait-whats-a-cutter/#comment-126 Tue, 17 Nov 2009 22:08:18 +0000 http://www.realtechmom.com/what-on-earth-is-an-emo-no-wait-whats-a-cutter/#comment-126 […] one year ago I wrote a post questioning what on earth Emo’s and Cutter’s and I’ve been enlightened, OVER and […]

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By: EmoGirlBloodStream http://www.mombiefitness.com/what-on-earth-is-an-emo-no-wait-whats-a-cutter/#comment-125 Sat, 14 Nov 2009 21:57:13 +0000 http://www.realtechmom.com/what-on-earth-is-an-emo-no-wait-whats-a-cutter/#comment-125 I’ve cut my self, to relive all that is wrong in the world…. I’m forced not to now…. so I feel so locked in, and held up. too much damn pain to understand, no one can understand, of holding all this in. I’ve tried learning not to, but I still have thoughts about doing it, knowing it would hurt my life, but it would make me feel better

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By: Krow Day http://www.mombiefitness.com/what-on-earth-is-an-emo-no-wait-whats-a-cutter/#comment-124 Thu, 12 Nov 2009 22:27:34 +0000 http://www.realtechmom.com/what-on-earth-is-an-emo-no-wait-whats-a-cutter/#comment-124 A “cutter” is someone who scars or disfigures themselves out of some psychological compulsion. People who do this usually have other mental issues such as depression, bipolar disorder, or some other mood disorder.

An “emo” is a member of a subculture that now refers almost exclusively (and derisively) to people perceived to shop at Hot Topic, wear outlandish dark clothing, listen to a particular style of music and who are overly emotional.

A cutter can be any sort of person, including one who does not outwardly seem histrionic. An emo can be a cutter, but most emos are likely just young, impressionable kids who seek some way to fit in to a group.

Emo was originally a underground music genre from the 90’s but the media twisted it to have a totally different meaning because alot of alternative rock bands started calling themselves emo,and people associated the way they look,how they compose they’re music to fit with emo which by far isnt true.

btw, Emo stands for Emotional Hardcore, and the posers who cut for attention give Emo and Cutters a bad name leading to the assumption that they go hand in hand, which is bullshit.

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